After writing a note for a friend aggression due to current Pakistani Systems, when I was writing some notes to him, I’ve an Idea to write about Bad Habits which are commonly in our youngster. So, here are the bad habits of our youngster but they unable to clue how deal with it.

First of all we need to know what bad habit is.

 A bad habit is a negative act that one repeats again and again. Habits rule our lives and if you are bound by bad habits, you have vital reason to be concerned. You must do all within your ability to address and correct such negative trends particularly if you desire progress in life. Someone said that habits determine our future. It’s true, now you can see your future on your own hand. The secret of your success lies in your daily routine. Something you do habitually is either blessing you or destroying you. Wouldn’t you rather be blessed? Youths are particularly prone to certain bad habits. I have try to show some following habitual of youngsters and off course teenagers who they used daily in their life, some very common bad habits and easy steps you can take to overcome them.

Cursing or Swearing
I observed as I was teenager and youngster too; now a day, many youngsters are in the habit of using curse words. Such foul words as f- -k and shit you are not only irritating to any decent ear, they expose you as crude and uncivilized. How about, when you are swearing to your parents not spend most of time with friends at the street?  Please control your tongue. Try using positive words such as: bless you, merciful Allah instead. Screaming the name Allah khair karay (یا اللہ خیرکرے  ) as a curse word is absolutely sacrilegious. So also, making a habit of saying, “I swear to Allah” is bad. Let your yes be yes and your no be no!

Stealing
Many youths are very guilty of this. Stealing simply means stealing in small quantities or committing petty thefts. Okay, so you say you are not a thief?  How about, when you are using mobile phones of your brother and sister without their permission? How about when you collect loose change from the grocery without informing them? What about sneaking into the kitchen to grab some chicken or a can of juice which you had been warned against taking? Each time you take something that isn’t yours without the owner’s consent, you are stealing. Save your face. Get rid of that bad habit before it leads to disgrace and dishonor you.

Exposure to pornographic materials
This is now very disguise and habitual act of our Pakistani youngsters, From porno messages, to porn web-sites, vulgar music and x-rated movies, every time you expose yourself to obscene materials, you are making yourself a candidate of sexual fantasies, masturbation, illegal sexual pleasure and ultimate distortion. The reason why many youths are obsessed on lust and sex is because they feed themselves with junk materials. What you read, listen to, see, watch and forwarded to others will eventually take control of you. That’s why in daily news we can read and watch the rape cases and gang rape cases with women, girls and under 10 years of old girls. Do yourself a favor and get rid of such dirty habits otherwise you will soon become a sex fanatic and pervert.

Impulsive spending
What do you do whenever you get a raise, a financial gift, your pocket money or your monthly salary? Youngsters often rush into fast foods and spend without planning. I am not saying you should not give yourself an occasional treat. However, when you make a habit of eating junk foods, your body becomes a dumping yard for sickness, undernourishment and obesity. Of course your pocket will also suffer for reckless spending.

Sleeping and wakeup without pray
Many youths are guilty of this (but also our parent’s responsibility to teach children about our sleeping and wakeup from the bed in Islamic manners). You wake up in the morning very late just woke up and rush into the bathroom.  If you want to have a great day, you must put wakeup early first taking Fajar Namaz to communicate with your Creator Allah.  In the pray, first by thanking Him for keeping you alive to see a new day. You should also ask Him to grant you favor and protection throughout the day. Also attempt to recite some Surrah before you jump into bed at night, such as, onetime ( درود پاک) Darood, one time Surah Faatiha, 3 times  (صورۃ اخلاص )Surah Ikhlas , 3 times(  صورۃ الفلق ) Surah Falaq, 3 times ( صورۃ الناس )Surah Naas and at the end one more time (درود پاک) Darood. Pray, no matter how tired or exhausted you feel. This is the surest way to keep the devil at bay.

Fun, Cool and Amusing

Other bad habits include: Tobacco smoking, gutka, pan, prag, greed, Run the motor bike without silencer, fun on bike,  throwing trash on the street or out of a moving vehicle or urinating on the road side, making promises you don’t intend to keep, hysterical anger, keeping hatred, borrowing money (especially so as to spend on nonsense), talking when food in your mouth, not brushing the mouth or bathing early enough on weekends or holidays, or even before going to sleep at night, etc. The only way to deal with a bad habit is first, recognize that it is bad. Secondly, hold self-discipline and tame yourself from being ruled by a bad habit. Be determined to break it and take the necessary steps by avoiding anything that could make you weak.

For example, if you are a sex maniac, pervert, you may need to change your circle of bad friends and hang around positive and decent folks. You also need to destroy any indecent material in your possession, stop browsing x-rated websites, don’t read or forwarded mobile dirty messages to your friends. You may have to swallow your pride and seek qualitative direction. Furthermore, reading informative manuals or self-help books relating to overcoming that weakness will also be useful. focus group discussion or help group relating to the subject at stake would be beneficial. Above all, pray to Allah for the grace to overcome every bad habit in your life. You shall overcome by the grace of Allah.. I’m sure this will really help you to move your life towards success and cherish character of life, it’ll also make difference to our society and it’ll be change if everyone trying to reduce or removing their bad habits individually it’ll creates a better society which is normally you can discover by yourself the history of Muhammad SWAW and their companions.

This is what I have changed in my life I finally I found myself a better character and successful businessman, in this country Pakistan. Where every youngster claiming that what Pakistan give us, this is now you can imagine if you change your bad habits you can earn something which only remains in your dreams.

Please share this to your love ones (friends) take a first steps ignorant to success.

 

 

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